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Communicating With Aging Parents:

• Set some time aside to talk with your parent(s) when you won't be interupted and when you are both rested and prepared.
• Encourage your parent to talk; avoid interupting or criticizing.
• Speak clearly and ask one question at a time.
• Have patience and allow sufficient time for a response.
• Encourage your parent(s) to express concerns and fears (large or small) about needing assistance.
• Don't worry if "feelings" interrupt the agenda; expressing feelings is part of the process.
• Be considerate but candid regarding medical prognosis, financial issues, and other topics that must be addressed - including your ability to help.
• Be ready to think through options and potential costs. If you're unsure of potential care options, enlist the advice of a knowledgeable professional at Eldercare Solutions.
• Encourage your parent(s) to make independent decisions for as long as possible. Offer support and communicate that you are available to assist.
• Listen attentively; don't dismiss two-way communication.
• End the discussion as soon as you or your parent start feeling tired or threatened.